Characteristics of the perfect woman

People are really vain at times. They are constantly searching for the perfection and what is even stranger – they are trying to correspond to that fictional perfect image that exists in their head. That may seem sad if you think that people are not living their lives, pursuing something unreal. But if you do not go into extremes, you will realize that trying to be perfect is not that bad.

Let’s be honest, nobody will fall in love with your inner self if you are an overweight couch potato who can hardly do elementary math puzzles. Soul really matters, but you need to have decent looks before someone wants to dig deep in your wonderful personality. 

Anyway, a wish to be better is a powerful incentive for self-development. And if you are still thinking that your Prince Charming must fall in love with your tender soul from the first sign…well…you’d better first become a Lady Charming for him. But what do men really want? How do they imagine a perfect girlfriend?

What are the main characteristics of an ideal girlfriend?

• Sharp mind. 

Even the most successful man needs a smart woman. If he has something to talk about and what to discuss with his beloved wife after a working day at a dinner table, then his day is a success.

• Care.

Kindness and care are valued by men no less than stunning looks. Any man will be happy to see that his beloved woman is not only the queen of parties, but also a caring gentle wife.

• Faithfulness. 

Faithfulness is one of the most important qualities of an ideal woman. This means that she has moral values and principles. Modern culture often portrays women who are free from any obligations. But a man with mature life philosophy won't agree to have a “free” woman by his side. Honestly, no normal man will take these girls seriously.

• Respect.

Mutual respect is important in any relationship, so, the ideal wife is sure to show respect for her husband. She will never belittle your virtues, trying to insult or humiliate you, being both alone and in public.

• Understanding and support.

Despite the fact that men are better prepared to act in unpredictable situations, they still need support and warm words of the woman they love. One of the best qualities in a woman is her willingness to listen to man's problems because she is his biggest supporter. And even if a woman is not able to change the situation for the better by her own actions, even her attention and understanding can be a great help for him in taking decisions. 

• Femininity. 

Beauty can be cold and even repulsive, but real femininity always makes its owner differ from the crowd. The way she presents herself, her gentleness, mystery, light footsteps, and smooth movements will always produce a deep impression on men. Men adore a woman like that. 

• Willingness to compromise. 

If both partners are too stubborn, then there will be no compromises in their relations. But, if you are a wise woman, then be sure to show flexibility and ability to compromise with the man you love. And he would be very grateful.

• Purposefulness. 

For a successful man, it is important that his beloved woman has an important goal in her life which she strives. Show your man that you know how be forward-looking.

What are other qualities of a good woman?

• She's the best friend. 

The strongest marital union is the one in which a man and a woman are the best friends. The ideal girl is able to share with her man all the unpleasant experiences as well as sincere dreams. The lack of secrets between the two of you makes your love stronger, increasing openness and trust.

• She can manage the household. 

For the ideal wife to keep her house clean and tidy is not difficult, because she is sure that a healthy environment is the key to good spirits and good mood. A thrifty woman is the most important factor of happy life and family well-being.

• She respects his relatives. 

At the initial stage of the relations, a man can claim that he does not care whether his relatives approve his choice or not. But in fact, this is one of the most attractive qualities in a woman as men think. Do you know why? A man simply cannot be happy if his close people always quarrel. Therefore, whatever controversial and mixed feelings you have for your husband's family, you need to try establishing good relations with them.

• She loves sex.

Despite the fact that we put this quality at the end of the list, sex life often heads it. If sex with a woman is awesome, she is hot and ingenious in bed, everything else really seems less important. And, on the contrary, no borscht, no mother-in-law's love, no stunning appearance, no knowledge of 8 languages and perfect cleanliness in the house can compensate for the lack of quality sex for a man.

However, it may seem that a perfect woman is a combination of a skillful lover in a bed, a great chef in the kitchen, a lady in public, and a perfect mother for their kids.

Well, I may add that ideal girlfriends also never get angry, never cheat or lie…and never exist! It is impossible to be perfect in everything, but honestly, men love women for their imperfection, for their madness at times, for being messy and lost. We love our soul-mates for who they are! Do you agree?